Jeremih - Break Up To Make Up

Hoes and Clothes

Right now,

im feelin like I need to win the Mega Million.

I need a vacay.

Plus, for all my problems with relationships to go away!

1.)My cuz is preggo and im really excited cause im the God Mommy! Kudos to me. I hope its a boy, cause that will be my lil son till i have my own kid! (Which hopefully witll be in the next year or two! ...Yea im young, but i will deff. love to grow with my child!) Were planning the baby shower which is over the top cause im OVER THE TOP! So that stress in itself.

2.)I have all these bills im trying to pay off before the middle of next year you can say. Maybe by then, i could have a car! Being grown is something else. For 22yrs of age, living on my own, handling my bills, etc, and doing me; i think im doing damn good! Kudos to me!

3.) This relationship im in, which is fairly new; is a killer i must admit. Its crazy cause i havent liked someone so much in about 2 years. So everytime we argue, i just wana hug and say everything will be ok. Everytime, he wants to leave after a blow out, i wont let him. Thats my baby! I dont love him (cause i just dont feel that way yet!), but i care a whole lot about him. Now that shit, drives me INSANE! Im still getting used to the whole relationship thing! Hes never been in one so this just makes everything so much harder. I got faith in it though! I think we can do it; and for the long haul!

4.) Jay-Z album BP3 is ok! I might do a review after i thoroughly listen to all the songs.

5.) Kanye West is the man for fucking the VMA's up. Leave it up to his ass!

6.) Lady GaGa....no comment!

7.) That Tea Face Wash from te Body Shop, has done wonders on my skin! Blemishes, GONE! Skin, CLEAR! Deff, reccommend it!

I think thats it! I mean .......idk!

Oh .........and if yall see me selling candy on the train

(lmfao never will you see that!)

its for the Supreme Fall 2009 Varsity Jacket. Kudos to Supreme!

All it Took!

Its been 2 years (almost) since i was in my last relationship with my ex Elijah. When i was in it, i thought it was the best thing ever. Like my "love life" couldn't get any better then what it was. That's until that one thing!

My friend Thadde Poo, was saying on his Facebook status; that females are basically bipolar with their feelings towards guys. I said that rejection hurts, men do the same thing. They loved you to death in the relationship, and then when its over; its like the love never existed! (FYI: When you really love someone, no matter, friend family, or partner; that shit just don't go away over night, or probably ever!)

Me and Elijah always had a funny relationship, very off and on all the time. It was a headache at times, there was good time too, but i loved him so much. Even when we weren't together, it was hard for me to move on. On the outside i was like fuck that nigga, but on the inside, i just wanted him back in my life. The last time we broke up, i thought that it would've been like any other time. Until i changed my number and i lost contact (for a lil ass min)! When we did end up speaking again, (we always did find our way back into each others life no matter what) it was like everything was all good, and we would just pick up from where we left off.....

Until he told me he was about to have a baby. A daughter. I was stuck on stupid when he told me that. It was only a year since we stopped fucking with each other. So i was like damn my nigga! So fast. We was together for 3 years and that was not a topic we agreed on too much, especially in a worst case scenario! That shit hit home. It was all over. All those feelings i had, that were so strong, went right out the window.

When you're in a relationship, their are things that make you be like wtf sometimes. Their are things that make you stick it out with someone. Their are things that happen, but you think really hard about decisions because of the way you feel. I never though i would ever get over this nigga, but all it took was him telling me that he had a baby! That shit blew mine.

When you really have strong feelings for someone, it just doesn't go away that easy (if you're trying to make it go away at all). So if ya significant other objects to these feelings the second day of a brake up they was fucking with you the whole time or maybe all it took was that one thing!

It Be Like That Sometimes!

Ever So Fashionable - Lady GaGa

Lady GaGa ...the epitome of style and fashion. She is an artist (in general , not just vocally) that i admire for stepping out the box, just like Rhianna and Amber Rose. Their is always something to look forward to when you hear such names in the industry. Lady GaGa has done callab's with a lot of people, that has elevated her career. One new project is Heartbeats a new headphone created and designed with Dr. Dre. So cute and fashion forward for a stylish suave young lady. Its said to be released in October 2009 in three different colors!! Click on the link and you'll see what i mean!

Feel Like a Kid in A Candy Store - Henri Bendel

The Brown and White and the Marquee bags are new for this season
from Henri Bendel and i love both styles. The Marquee Hobo is my fave though. I might cop that this fall. Henri Bendel is so fashionable and reasonable for being a high fashion designer. If you ever go to the store its so much more to see then the website. Its really like being in a candy store. You just want everything, but you cant (or maybe you could!)! I love their styles and colors and designs different from a lot of other designers! BENDEL!

Here are a couple of other pieces from the Bendel collection,
that i just feel like i need to get my hands on!

For a better look at more bags and accessories hit up Henri Bendel or visit the store at 712 Fifth Avenue New York, NY 10019. Check the website for store hours or call 1800HBendel

Cassie x DimePiece Vid

Supreme Fall/Winter 09..One of Each Thanks!

Cuffing Season? WhereTheyDoThatAt?!?!

I'm not a fan of casual dating. I like to be settled with one person. Its a lot more fun and less fucking headaches! I haven't been in a relationship for forever now. Like two years! I just been chilling, talking to whoever i feel like, laying up with whoever i feel like laying up with; however I'm getting tiered of it (i been tiered)!

Anywho i been seeing this guy for a lil tiny minute, and we really click. i click with a lot of people, cause I'm just that bitch; but he completes my sentences, he says things I'm thinking, and he feels the same exact way i feel about relationships. No bullshit. Its crazy, that the idea of the whole "cuffing" bullshit never crossed my mind, cause i think I'm a little bit too old for games like that.

Cuffing or Cuffing Season i should say? What is that you might ask! For some that don't know "Cuffing Season" is when your usually just dating, nothing serious and the time of the year comes up when its bought to be cold. Fall/Winter per say! Example: Ive been seeing this guy from March until September but he never wanted anything serious..... until October! Now he wants me all to himself (supposedly!) So now were all boo'd up....until it gets hot again! Then he don't know how to act!

I got a lil happy of the idea of actually being in a relationship after such a long time. So, i put a lil indirect status on Facebook thinking nothing of it. I just had to put this thought i had somewhere. So my cousin comments on it. Were going back and forth on FB like two fools. Shes trying to tell me, that I'm trying to cuff him, and he trying to cuff me! I'm like duhhh...... permanently! (I'm in my head like wtf is she talking bout!) So then she going on and on and on. Of course i shut the whole convo down.

Like dead ass, who still does this cuffing season bull shit? At first I'm like she just mad, cause a nigga trying to cuff her ass for a fucking season. Don't be mad that the nigga tyring to wife me! Not cuff, wife! I guess immature minds don't understand that shit. It had me puzzled for a lil min, then i realized who i was talking to! I'm not a person that feeds into bullshit or comments from other people about my own situation...but lets be serious? WHERE THEY DO THAT AT?

M.O.B. is What It Is!

This post right here is dedicated to the most lovely, smart, educated, fierce, independent, and fashionable group of ladies i know..... M.O.B. Their blog theMOBlifestyle is full of ideas, opinions, and thoughts, that thoroughly express the ladies personality. Hailing from the city that never sleeps, NEW YORK, they got the "swag" (as most would say) of no other.

On August 25th the ladies were crowned

MOST OFFICIAL BITCHES

STREET TEAM

for the clothing company M.O.B.

Now I'm bought to get real "bitchy". They are the "go hard or go home" kind of bitches.

Fly as hell, smart as hell, and making moves y'all bitches wish y'all could make!

They say what they want, do what they want,

and manages to maintain themselves to prosper in life goals.

I'm proud of all the ladies, and i know this is just the beginning to much more adventures.

Ace of Spades high to the ladies.

To read up on these ladies or get contact information, hit them up on http://www.themoblifestyle.blogspot.com/

Congratulations

Fashion.
Saddity.
Stylin'.
Hollywood.

Reminder - Barneys New York Sale 08/20 to 09/07

Gone But Never Forgotten - RIP Aaliyah

I still feel the urge to cry every time i hear an Aaliyah record. Time flew by so fast. I hear her music everyday on my ipod. Its like shes not even gone. Where would we be in the music business if she wasn't gone?

Happy Birthday M.O.B

"Other Bitches Just Front" -

a famous headline from the prosperous clothing brand M.O.B

who is now celebrating their 5th Anniversary.

As part of their celebration, they are releasing

The MOB Exclusive 5-Pack Panties!

These draws right here have the famous quotes from the company on the booty area!

My fave "Do i look like i give a fuck!"

Lets do it up big wit the M.O.B and cop some panties.

You can purchase this set at Karmaloop.

Hurry before they're gone. Limited Supply.

Bathing Ape Pirate Store NYC

*** Extra Extra Read All About It***

Bathing Ape is opening up a Pirate Store which is basically a DISCOUNT STORE!!!! Yeaaaa!

Shoes, apparel, accessories, ON SALE!

The store opens on

Thursday September 3rd to Monday September 7th.

Where is the store located? No one knows.

As soon as i find out, i will deff. post. So stay tune!

The Soundcheck III

Be there or....... Be there!

Show up late and you may miss something!

My shun shun Brey a Promoter and Producer,

puts together these amazing showcases every month.

Different artists, different vibe.....

his grandmother went to the first one...I mean, I can't call it!

"I just love to have great artists perform and I need everyone to know about this!!!"

Come through and check it out! If you into new talent....say no more!

Cover $12 in Advance

More at the door
18+

Advanced tix: www.santospartyhouse.com

Leaders Of The New School

September 2nd, 2009
Fresh Pulp, Sosa Management & Forty Fresh
presents
Leaders Of The New School
Featuring: Eric Sosa, Wordspit, Rip MC, & R&B singer Shalea.
@Bowery Poetry Room
308 Bowery Btw Houston and Bleecker

Im going, so should yall! Ill post it again, next week to remind you forgetful people!
Also for more info contact Forty Fresh @ ogfort@gmail.com

Product Review - Body Shop Tea Tree Skin Cleansing Products

My skin is real funny. I cant wash my face with everything and i don't even lotion my skin because it gets really oily. I was in the "mall" over the weekend and i went into the Body Shop. I came across these the two items pictured below and i thought anything with tea especially green tea is good for you. So i picked up a bottle of both. I washed my face this morning with both products and my face of course felt refreshed. The thing that caught my attention the most was the fact that i was hot and it didn't show up in my face. Usually it gets really oily and i hate that. These two products together, kept my face grease free; which i loved. I would recommend these products to anyone wit the same problem, or just want a refreshing feeling after a well rested sleep. They are alos having a sale on the Tea Tree product collection 2 for $18 which is great because one item is like $10 - $20

I Love a Watch, But I Perfer G-Shock!

i LOVE me many of watches. My father use to buy me a lot of watches when i was little.

(i lost everything as usual!) Now that I'm collecting that thing called paper on my own,

i like to spend on things i like to collect. One of those things happen to be G-Shock watches.

I like a lot of different brands but i love G- Shock. The colors, the styles, and the prices....

So far i bought a red Glide (my fave color had to come first);

and my latest,

the peach color Glide a calabo with In4ma+tion

I wana see how much i can get before the year is over.

WTAPS x Supreme Fall/Winter 2009 Award Jacket

Everyone that knows me, know i am in love with SUPREME clothing and hats. Ive been waiting to see what theyre bringing out this Fall and im getting very impatient. One piece set to be released....well we dont know yet; is this varsity jacket. As a result of a calabo with WTAPS x Supreme, is the Award Jacket. A varsity jacket that comes in red and blue, has a variety of patchwork and is reversible. Im not one of complication but i love varsities. I wish sometime some companies would take this into consideration. >>>>> "Try to maximize the potentials of things within the limit of the design." - WTAPS

Coke or Pepsi?

So this post has nothing to do with soda. lol But um yea, soooo, my whole reasoning behingd the title is how do you choose. Same beverage concept, but apparently some people prefer one over the other. That's why both companies still exist in and are in high competition.

When you're dating, you're not "tied down" to any one particular person. You can fuck and suck and fuck whoever you want, (per say)! Any who when it comes down to that point when its time to make a decision, or as i call it CRUNCH TIME; how hard does it become to choose between people. Clearly if you're dating this person, its for a reason. (Well then again, maybe its not!Maybe you just want some good head, or maybe that person has some fat pockets!!! All the wrong reasons, but to eachs' own!)

I'm in a situation where i (technically) been single for a hot ass minute, and i been SWIMMING in the waters! Like deep sea diving, and snorkeling, and all that other hot shit. You get the point I'm trying to make though! Now, I'm like ok i can settle again. Ive been seeing a few people, but there are two specific people i know i can be with on a serious level. The hard part for me is, how do i know that I'm making the right decision picking one over the other. Well then again i guess you don't really know do you? How would you make a decision like this?

Day 26 - So Good

Mary J. Blige - Stronger

This track sang by Mary J. Blige is the lead single from the official soundtrack for the bio about LeBron James & his high school teammates, “More Than A Game”! LeBron is doing big things with his life, and making the more so respectful moves then most NBA Stars (wana be rappers...SMH!)

Operation Failed - Lacoste Space Pack

Martin Margiela Fall/Winter 2009 >> The Motorcycle High Top Trainer

Always been a fan of Martin Margiela kicks.

They just look so damn comfy and simple but artsy' at the same time.

i LOVE it!

for more styles you can check out

www.highsnobiety.com or http://www.maisonmartinmargiela.com

Jay-Z (Feat. Kanye West && Rhianna) - Run This Town

Gucci Fall/Winter 09-10

Gucci is on their METALLIC flow for this season. Very interesting for the Fall/Winter collection. Most of the pieces are dark metallic colors which i think looks good in the evening time. I'm not a fan of gold and silver shit though. For the men, hmmmmm! I prefer CLASSIC shit with guys. They have a few things i like for the guys. Here is look at whats in store for the season.

Jamie Foxx (Feat. Drake, The-Dream & Kanye West) - Digital Girl Remix

Should the Past Effect the Future?

Meeting someone that you would like to get serious with is like a mission. There are just so much things you have to consider.

One thing i think about a lot is the PAST. Not how many people the person slept with, (cause its 2009 and everyone has a lil whore in them!) or how many kids the person had in previous relationships. Those are things that can be worked out or talked about to better the relationship; if it were to cause a problem. However, some things just cant be taken back!

STD's and INCARCERATION; what do you think about that? What if you met someone and they did 10 years in jail for a crime they are aware that they committed; such as dealing drugs or assaulting or killing someone? What if you met someone that had a STD before you met them? Would you feel safe and secure? Knowing that this person has a history of diseases that are sickly and deadly; or a past of violence!!

Me personally, i try really hard not to be judgemental. As far as STD's goes, i don't think that everyone is 100 with their partner. That's sad, but at the same time its true. That's why their is such a high rate of diseases among young adults. Also, if that was the case the shit wouldn't be spreading so rapidly! For the incarceration, it depends on the situation. You cant try to holla at me with domestic charges, cause how do i know you wont try to whoop my ass. Like i said earlier i take everything in to consideration.

I met a guy that's 24yrs old fresh outta jail for Manslaughter charges from a teenager. That's a severe situation. He explained the situation and we spoke for a while (still a lot more speaking to do!) and i really got to talk to him. His head was in a place so much more beyond his age its not even funny. Hours on end of conversation wit this guy and i feel like we on the same page to the T! When i speak he finishes my sentences! When i think something, he says it out loud. Its so ironic to meet someone like that that you click so well with. Our connection is something that i can see going far, BUT what about the past?

All i can do is see if HIS future is something that can be bright. I'm sure he would have a very hard time getting his feet wet because of his past situation. I'm not gonna give up on him though. If i see someone that is true to their word, and come back from certain circumstances, and handle his business; FUCK IT! Whats the difference from someone that doesn't have a past anyway. A man is a man!

Barney's New York Sale 08/20 - 09/07

WESC "We Are The Superlative Conspiracy"

I never really pay attention to no stores in Soho, New York besides Supreme

(Cause thats my favorite streetwear company...... so far!)

I was on http://www.highsnobette.com/ and i saw these headphones>>>>

I want Oneeeeeeeeee or maybe Two!

I love my music so i always need that shit blasting in my ear on the train, (especially so i could ignore the fuck outta people thats always asking a million and one questions about train service like i dont give MTA enough of my money as it is!) Anywhom i got these gold and black headphones by Eskuche from www.UrbanOutfitter.com, that does it for me. However, just seeing all those colors made me go check the website out. http://www.wesc.com/ They actually have pretty nice pieces, and they have a concept. I mean most stores do, but to me this one has like a genuine meaning! Go figure this shit was down the block from Supreme. SMH! 282 Lafayette StreetNew York, NY 10012 .. You might wana check it out!

Mishka Fall 2009

I love street wear clothing, and stickers, and caps, and hoodies, and tees, and blah blah blah!
Mishka is one of my faves. I love the different look for the Fall 09 collection. Especially that red top wit the gun....POW!

I want this bookbag so bad, but i just wish they would replace the Colt 45 with Corona's!

You can find this book bag and other unique pieces at
350 Broadway Brooklyn, New York or http://mishkanyc.com/home

Lanvin Fall 2009

Im very into sneakers. From Air Max to Chloe to Adidas to LANVIN
I always had a crush on Lanvin kicks.
I think the colors, materials, and styles is a good look!
Here are some of Lanvin Fall 2009 Sneaker Collection
You can also find some of the styles for sale on http://www.aloharag.com/highseas/assets/images/home.htm

Its A New Day

I was previously doing another blog www.fashionistasneakerhead.blogspot.com I stopped blogging for a while becasue I felt like my blog was too broad and not focused on the things i really wanted to blog about. So i decided to create a new one and start fresh. Relationships and Fashion. I think im some kind of psychologist when it comes to relationships. Fashion, no explination needed. So enjoy if you have any suggestions or want an opinion, hit me up h03sncl0th3s@gmail.com